White guys guide dating black women
This one's embarrassing, but some poor misguided folks have dated Funky Brown Chick and morphed into a walking, talking Black Appreciation Parade. She cautions against sticking your foot in your mouth when faced with a differing opinion.
Shutterstock For some Black women, going on a date with a White man can be extremely nerve-wracking, especially if it’s their first time dating a white man. ” Well, in this case your best bet is to go into the date thinking that he’s just a normal guy, regardless of his race.
Maybe we could be grab coffee or drinks or something?
Don't say dorky things like "Black women have more flava" or bust into a freestyle rap.3. She says it's okay to cop to never dating a black chick if you want. Again, this could be a general dating tip, but when in the company of a different race it's only natural to have an opposing opinion when discussing certain topics.
The man in question thinks he’s entitled to a “flawless” black woman even though he is a self-admitted cheater, has babies peppered all over the place, and makes a living dragging black women’s image on You Tube.
Not one time did he understand that these “flawless” black women are going to average looking white men because they may have something to offer other than a big dick.
While we know our society is ripe with stereotypes, we just hope for a day when a blogger like Funky Brown Chick won't have to write a list titled How To Date A Black Woman to quiet all those who incessantly ask her. But don't (and this should be a rule when dating anyone) pretend you are looking for something serious when really all you want is to add Black Woman (or whatever race) to your sex resume."There are plenty of places and opportunities to do that," she says. She says, "When dating someone from a background other than your own, be prepared to brush up against ideas that may or may not run counter to your beliefs. Try to avoid seeing this as some sort of racial science experiment.
It’s not that they do it on purpose, but it’s just that sometimes make certain comments that can seem annoying or even inappropriate.
Social media maven and empowerment superstar, Breukelen Bleu wrote a post this morning that was brilliant and a must read.